wats love?

being in a relationship can be a beautiful thing ,but turn the table around it will be the most powerful weapon of all.

you can never measure how bad it can hurt u.

just spoken to fren who is still struggling to get out of a fresh break up, and the way she persistent about it and somehow still not completely given up n yet still trying to work things out for the 100th times kinda scared me. Imagine what LOVE can do to u.

and another fren of mine, still painful from the "god knows how long it had ended" relationship.

I really feel bad for them, in a way i feel like grab on their shoulders firmly and shake it as hard as i could, wake up friends!! stop hurting urself like that!! but in a way it ll be ignorant, i am fortunate that i ve never had such encounter, but why if one day it happens to me? i might suddenly realise how they feel.

had two visitors from vancouver , bruce and heng who r both kenny's housemates. one of them is also at the critical stage of a two years relationship. We been thru the exact same situation, so darling n him had alot of talking about this.

and i was told to give the other party some advices. first of all i dunno them that well and wouldnt it be awkward for them to just open up to total strangers? another thing is, i really sucked at this giving advices thing, maybe is the pressure of chances of me screwing up becoz i said the wrong thing? but the main thing is, i realised that i never put myself in their shoes when i start blabing what they should do, as though is as easy as it speaks. but for things that i been thru, i might be able to share some experience.

i know i will be uncomfortable if my critical stage bf returned from an island and suddenly two strangers know everything n started talking to me all about our relationship.

put it this way, few years ago , i will hv no pro open up myself to anybody but now i ve had issue trusting ppls and obviously the level of my comfort with stranger had a tremendous change throughout years.

anyway all of u will hv my best wishes.